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5 Reasons to Love Being a Dominatrix in New York City

In response to COVID-19 I unexpectedly signed a lease on a 1-bedroom apartment in my hometown, Brooklyn, NY.  Calling it a second home to my loft in Downtown Los Angeles. It was a shocking decision, but one which I’ve grown to love tremendously. Almost ten years later, my work as a professional dominatrix has brought me back to New York City and I’m positive that these are the top 5 reasons to become a Dominatrix in New York…  

 

  1. The Play Parties: There’s so many things to love about being a Dominatrix in New York City! As a Native New Yorker I’ve lived through the local kink scene, attending my first play party when I was just 16 years old. New York is still just as daring and offers opportunities for an elite dominatrix (or any member of the femdom empire) to connect with real, worthy submissive men. 

 

  1. The Clientele: Which brings me to one of my favorite parts of NYC, all the incredible people you can meet! Time after time I’ve found some of the most masochistic subs and most generous clientele to be New Yorkers. This seems to ring true in every industry—as I’ve spoken to strippers, escorts, and sugar babies alike who have told me that New York is the best city to make money in sex work. As a New Yorker myself I can tell you that we like to party and will go to any expense for a one-of-a-kind experience. 

 

 

  1. The Fashion: The home of New York Fashion Week couldn’t possibly disappoint when it comes to shopping. Alongside New York’s resident latex designers The Baroness Latex and Latex Nemesis are a number of small private boutiques that see clients by appointment only. This includes the center of the NYC rubber fetish scene, The Parthenon. Although Headmistress Ariana Chevalier has only recently started designing rubber clothing, her sense of style is truly uncanny and calls for some very unique pieces. Not to mention, there’s no better city in the world for a sub or sugar daddy funded shopping date—who could forget all of the luxury stores on Fifth Avenue! 

 

  1. The Freedom of Sexual Expression: It seems like every kinky person I meet these days identifies as polyamorous, queer, trans, or some variation of the three. New York City is home to so many important figures in LGBTQI+ history (the Stonewall InnMarsha P. Johnson, and Sylvia Rivera to name a few), so as you can imagine is it also one of the most accepting cities for alternative lifestyles in the world. BDSM specific sex shops like DV8/Purple Passion offer educational workshops to teach kinksters how to embrace their fetishes and practice them both safely and consensually. And Paddles, the last strictly BDSM club left in New York, is open 7 nights a week, welcoming curious kinksters and experienced Dommes alike.  

 

 

  1. The Lavish Lifestyle: Imagine having lunch at the Armani store. Sipping champagne at gallery openings in Soho. Watching the city sparkle below you while you dance the night away on the observation deck of the new World Trade Center. This is the lifestyle New York City has to offer and there’s nothing more suiting for a Dominatrix in demand. No wonder so many of the industry’s greatest have either started their career here or continue to tour to the city to this day. In a city with all the money, resources, and opportunities to make it big, as the Sinatra saying goes, “If you can make it here, you can make it anywhere.” 

 

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